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You’re Not Too Strong, Smart, or Pretty to Be Raped: A Survivor’s No-BS Guide to Ending Gender-Based Violence 

"We must acknowledge that [society] works by promoting perpetual war against girls, women, and femmes," writer and survivor Myriam Gurba says. "Your job is to decide which side of the war you’re on and commit to that fight."

10:20 AM PDT on March 31, 2026

a drawing of a survivor of rape/domestic violence sitting with their chest to their knees

Illustration by Ivan Ehlers for L.A. TACO.

Hi! My name is Myriam Gurba, and I enjoy curating safe spaces for survivors.

If you’re a survivor or someone who loves survivors, welcome!

If you’re an abuser, bye! I hope that the door hits your deceitful ass on your way out.